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Adults experiencing the pain of parental divorce

Gettelfinger, Kathleen, MSMFT • February 29, 2012

As more couples divorce at mid-life or beyond, adult children of divorce represent a significant and growing segment of the population. While research and intervention efforts have focused on young children who still live in the family home at the time of their parents’ divorce, adult children who experience the pain of their parents’ divorce after leaving the family home also experience difficulty.

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